Thank you for your interest in reaching out to those involved and / or trapped in the sex industry. Regardless of your ability to commit to any area of this ministry at this time, please put us on your prayer list! As you become more educated on this industry, you may feel an overwhelming sense that this is just too big of a problem to solve. Luckily, it is not by our will or might. Our assurance comes from knowing that nothing is impossible for our God! (Luke 18:27). 

Click on the links below to see the various ways you can serve. Prayerfully consider where God might be leading. If you feel led to serve in one or more areas, click on "Connect With Us" to fill out a Volunteer Application.

Changing Destinies Light of the World

Volunteer Criteria

Changing Destinies Volunteer
  • Be a believer and follower of the Lord Jesus Christ
  • Share CDM's Vision and agree with our Statement of Faith and Core Values
  • Want to be actively involved in the mission
  • Walk in faith under the guidance of Holy Spirit
  • Demonstrate impeccable character and sexual purity, meaning currently no viewing of pornography or sexual contact outside of marriage between a man and a woman
  • Believe that nothing is impossible for our God, refuse to limit His abilities, and desire to abolish all forms of slavery
  • Be willing to:
    • Abide by requirements for chosen position
    • Pray regularly for decisions regarding this ministry
    • Be patient and willing to listen to God's guidance
    • Promote the objectives of this ministry
Board Members ***IMMEDIATE NEED*** Prospective Board Members must:
  • Have a Christian worldview and lifestyle
  • Be willing to commit and actively participate in Board meetings for terms of 1-3 years
  • Be devoted to fighting human trafficking
  • Be committed to promote and support the mission through networking, intercession, financial giving, keeping current and informed on the needs of trafficking victims, and advocating at local and national level for effective and best practice services


Changing Destinies Support
IMMEDIATE NEEDS ***Organizational Leadership Positions Still Needed*** Seeking motivated and experienced people for the following positions:
  • Development and Fund-Raising Staff (Directors: Kathy Newcomb and Mamie LeGrand)
    • Develop fundraising strategies and goals
    • Help to identify new potential donors and acquire sponsors
    • Maintain donor relationships
    • Plan, organize, and execute various fundraising programs and events
    • May assist in writing grant proposals
    • Collect items for strip club, shelter, silent auctions, etc.
  • Marketing / Communications Staff (Director: Nina Sanner)
    • Plan, develop, and implement all of CDM’s marketing, communications, and public relations strategies, activities, materials and services, both external and internal
    • Direct marketing, communications, and public relations staff and coordinate at the strategic and tactical levels with the other functions of CDM
    • Organize and supervise community education/awareness activities, outreach, and community engagement with law enforcement, faith-based community partners, businesses, department of human services, and community-based agencies
  • Networking
    • Organize and supervise community education/awareness activities, outreach, and community engagement with law enforcement, faith-based community partners, businesses, department of human services, and community-based agencies
ONGOING NEEDS (Coordinators are listed below if positions are filled) Administrative
  • Networking / Social Media: We would love to have someone on the team who is energetic and knowledgeable about trends and networking through social media platforms (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc.) (Coordinator: Katie Walter)
  • Technical Support: We are seeking someone who is creative and proficient with wordpress software and can maintain a professional website (Coordinator: Mary Ann Gerney of Oakland eMedia)
  • Trainer / Curriculum Development: For speaking engagements and training, we are looking to build a team of trainers and curriculum developers (Coordinator: Position OPEN). Should be able to:
    • Formulate teaching outline and determine instructional methods, such as group instruction, lectures, conferences, meetings and workshops
    • Select or develop teaching aids, such as training handbooks / modules, demonstration models, multimedia visual aids, computer tutorials and reference works
    • Conduct training sessions that cover specified areas.
FUTURE STAFFING NEEDS (When Shelter Opens) General
  • Administration / Human Resources and Finance Director: This multifaceted position requires someone with organizational and computer skills who can:
    • Manage financial, administrative and logistical resources to include light bookkeeping and paperwork, filing, and data entry (to be determined)
Rachel's Refuge Shelter
  • Shelter Program Director
    • Oversee shelter services and appropriate supportive housing for female trafficking survivors over 18 years old
    • Work with Case Management Coordinator to develop programs and resources and formulate case plans that promote healing, wholeness, and self- sufficiency
    • Ensure the safety of all residents by implementing, monitoring and enforcing the rules and regulations of communal living.
  • Case Management Coordinator
    • Working with Shelter Program Director to manage clients' care by:
      • Assessing treatment needs
      • Developing, monitoring, and evaluating treatment plans and progress
      • Facilitating interdisciplinary approaches
      • Monitoring staff performance.
  • Shelter Live-in Parent(s)
    • Provide a calm, nurturing, open-minded, non-judgmental presence in the home after hours
    • Must demonstrate ability to utilize a Christ-like approach to situations that may arise in the home and able to provide godly wisdom, boundaries, and structure.
  • Grounds / General Maintenance
    • Able to perform semi-skilled work in maintaining the grounds and landscapes
    • Perform maintenance on equipment and tools; Make minor repairs (within demonstrated capability) as directed
    • Ideally, qualified Shelter Live-in Parent(s) can take on dual roles of maintaining grounds and managing home after hours

Prayer & Intercession

Changing Destinies Intercession
Ministry Prayer Partners: We are in constant need of prayer. We don't want to do one thing without God’s guidance and provision. We need prayer coverage for CDM’s outreach team members, speaking engagements, fund raisers, and prayer requests listed in newsletters. Get on our mailing list for specific updates. Overall, please pray that God would:
  • Abolish human trafficking completely
  • Change the destinies of all sex industry workers, commercial sex, labor and human trafficking victims, and all those who are exploited sexually
  • Bless and equip this ministry with His power, might, divine favor and wisdom. Guide all decisions for His glory, and enable us to do justice to His calling in this area
  • Put a hedge of protection around all outreach workers and their families as they seek to minister
  • Bring many churches and individuals to partner with us building a coalition for abolition
  • Use us to reach many people for His kingdom
  • Soften and prepare hearts to receive truth, open doors of opportunity to share God’s love, help us find favor, and bring down strongholds and barriers

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Helping Hands

Changing Destinies Helping Hands

The sex industry is a cruel master. Sometimes people are forced or tricked by a calculated, manipulative trafficker. Some, such as those who work in strip clubs specifically, many enter in of their own free will and not have a pimp controlling them or their money.

Regardless of their reason for working in the sex industry, it’s an industry that exploits past hurts like physical, emotional, and / or sexual abuse as a child; being made fun of or bullied; knowing poverty; or having low self-esteem and craving attention and acceptance. Once in, exiting out is challenging. The pull to stay is very strong. Many come back even after leaving the industry because the money was good and other pursuits didn’t pan out.

The problem with clinging to this industry is that it has no benefits. There is no security, insurance, upward mobility, or workers compensation. It’s an industry where men and women will one day ‘age out’ and be thrown away like a piece of trash.

We want to connect the visions and dreams of those who are genuinely trying to exit the sex industry with a team of Christian mentors, advisors, business owners, referral agents, financiers, career counselors, and sponsors who will guide and assist them as they realize their God-inspired dreams and talents. We feel the next step would be to bolster their vision. We want to be able to demonstrate that an initial pay cut might be worth exploring if there is something that shows promise as a career. We want to monopolize on their dreams and talents that maybe they haven’t explored yet out of fear or failure in the past. We hope to inspire and support those who want to get out, but don’t have the vision or ability to chase their dream.

The program is still in its infancy stage and still has a lot of room for growth. If you have ideas that you would like to share with us, feel free to contact us. If you are interested in being involved, please review criteria under Volunteer Criteria and fill out Volunteer Application.

Other Ways You Can Help

Current Needs

Changing Destinies Current Needs

All Sizes and Types of Decorative Boxes / Bags, Tissue Paper, Birthday Cards - (both sexes,
Christian themed, blank)
Gift Certificates/Cards - (Wal-Mart, Lowe's, Sam’s, Staples, iTunes, Restaurants, Visa, Other
Activities, BAM, Amazon – all amounts)
Toiletries - (Feminine Hygiene Products, Face Wipes, Alcohol-Free Mouthwash, Toothpaste,
Toothbrushes, Shampoo, Conditioner, Deodorant, Loofahs, Body Wash, Hand Sanitizer,
Perfume or Body Mist, Lotions)
Manicure / Beauty Items - (Skin Care Systems such as Mary Kay and Arbonne, Polish, Cotton
Balls, Polish Remover, Cuticle, Files, Clippers, Buffers, Exfoliating Gel, Jamberry Nails,
Tweezers, Quality Shavers, Brushes / Combs, Hair Straighteners, Blow Dryers, Hair Bows /
Pins, Lip Gloss)
First Aid - (Bandaids, Bandages, Telfa, Surgical Tape)
Candy / Gum (All Types of Hard Candy and Gum, Chocolate, Breath Mints)
Jewelry - (Earrings, Necklaces, Bracelets, Rings)
Household Items - (Toilet Paper, Paper Towels, Ziplock Bags, Organizer Bins/Drawer
Organizers, Coffee Cups, Glasses, Dishes, Food Prep Items and Utensils)
Cleaning Supplies - (Clorox Wet Wipes, Swiffer Wet/Dry Mop Pads, Windex, Mop,
Laundry Detergent/Dryer Sheets, Tall Kitchen Garbage Bags)
Office/Journaling Supplies - (Post-It’s, Pens, Sharpies of All Colors, Dry Erase Markers, Copy
Paper, Journals, Stationary Sets)
Linens - (Towels, Washcloths, Dish Towels)
Electronics - (Computers/Laptops, iPods, Flash Drives)
Christian Books / CD’s / Videos - (Bibles in Message or NASB Translation, Devotionals) 


Changing Destinations Donations

We are a 501(c)3 non-profit with tax exempt status under the IRS code. ​Every single donation will go straight into operating expenses for ministry purposes only. There are no paid employees, only volunteers.

If you would like to donate items from our current needs list (on Volunteer Opportunities page), contact us to receive mailing information or inquire about drop off locations.

If you would like to support us financially and / or donate towards opening a shelter, click on the donate button below.

For any special requests on how you would like the money distributed, comment in the special instructions.

May the Lord richly bless you for your generosity. Changing Destinies Donate


Changing Destinies Wish List
  • Office Space: We would love to have a multifaceted work center located somewhere in Moore County, North Carolina.
  • Vocational Space: This would be in area where clients could be brought to be mentored for entrepreneurship exploits, such as baking / cooking classes, jewelry making, sewing, woodworking, automotive, or any area of interest. The possibilities are endless.
  • Professional Services: Partnerships with career counselors, colleges, life coaches, legal, and medical.
  • Passenger Van (11 seats): To drive clients to church, appointments, field trips, etc.
  • Help us dream! Contact us with your ideas and dreams to build a coalition for abolition.